This post is on the 3 guidelines to getting a Finnish girlfriend. This is probably because like ladies all over the world, Finnish ladies are waaaaaaaaaaay more complicated than Finnish men. In fact, if you want to get a Finnish Girlfriend, you should just treat her like how you would treat any other lady, and…


  1. Hi. I’m an Iranian Boy recently moved to Helsiniki. I don’t know Finnish and I think there’s no shot for me to be a finnish girl. They’re so cute and honest. What do you suggest?

    1. Hello Arash,

      Thank you for your comment! Iranian guys are hot and have the most beautiful eyes ever! *-*

      I’d suggest just being awesome, and the better/best version of yourself. πŸ˜€ Anyway, you speak English, and I think that’s good enough. Sometimes when I speak to my blonde Finnish girlfriends, they say they like black haired guys over blonde guys HAHAHAHA.

      All the best, keep me updated when you find your pretty finnish girlfriend! ^^


  2. Hello! Thank you for your post! I am a fairly religious (Christian) man and live by my faith as a way to help people. Do you have any advice for meeting or getting to know Christian Finns? Thank you πŸ™‚

  3. Is there a finish dating site for foreginers who wants to meet up with a finish girl? Im from Denmark and would LOVE to date a finish girl πŸ™‚

  4. Hi, thank you for for the post! I’m ethically Korean but grew up in Germany so I mostly lived around a lot of white people. Anyways, I don’t know why but there is something about blonde women that makes me attracted to them, particularly the Finns. I’m not saying other races including my fellow Koreans are unattractive (in fact, I’ve seen a lot of attractive Asian girls eye me quite frequently when I visited Korea and Japan, including strangers) but I seem to like the Nordic look more and I feel quite strange since I’m Asian myself. I enjoyed the guidelines you wrote but I think my chances of landing with a Finnish girl are quite slim. I’ve met some in Germany and my god they were stunners. They were friendly and open to conversations but still, I felt I had no chance with them, almost as if they were completely out of my league. The most I did was shake hands with them and a simple goodbye when it was over. I didn’t go any further. Maybe I’m just having self esteem issues because even up till college now, I’ve never been in any relationships and I’m not the most social person around. I guess the reason is my fault mostly since I was more focused about academics during school and I lacked the interest to pursue. No I’m not some nerd because I’m quite athletic (did competitive swimming in the United States and I do mma in my free time) and love hanging out with my friends a lot. But when it comes to women, I’m just some antisocial wimp, which can be a huge turn off. Another reason why, which is kind of dumb, is because of my race. I know blaming your background for your problems is pretty juvenile but you rarely see white girls with an Asian guy and that only takes away more hope. Anyways, I’m planning to go Finland sometime, perhaps for an exchange program in my college. I’m not gonna try to immediately go for them but maybe I can try to get to know them more and then decide from there. What do you think of this and what do Finnish girls think of Asians like myself? Do they go for foreigners or is it gonna be harder for me than their fellow natives? It’s fine to be completely honest if you’re gonna answer. I just need insight from someone like you since you seem to know a lot about Finland and its people. Thank you!

    1. Hello, thank you for your comment!

      A caveat: My writings are completely based on a narrow set of data lol, do bear that in mind before taking any advice πŸ™‚

      If I were you, Id think that the best strategy is to let a Finnish girl approach me. You seem to be a bit socially awkward with ladies, which is perfectly normal. Some ladies (regardless of race or looks) have this soft spot for slightly shy guys because they don’t bullshit.

      So Id make use of the hallyu culture in finland and make myself visible to finnish ladies who like k-Pop and korean culture. πŸ˜‰ there are korean pop clubs and sub-cultures all around in finland. In this way, you completely eliminate the white-men colonialism effect that you are bothered with. πŸ™‚

      Be careful not to end up in religious cults disguised as korean lifestyle groups though (drop me an email to check beforehand). There are some. But most korean lifestyle hobby clubs in finland are perfectly legit.

      It doesn’t even matter if you don’t give a damn about korean pop or drama LoL! once you get the girl, just visit the club less if that’s the case! Lol

      Think it will work–keep me updated. πŸ˜‰ all the best, aja aja fighting!

    2. There is A LOT of finnish girls who love asian guys, I myself included,BUT if you only want the stunning blonde finnish girls, then you might never get one. Many of are brunettes and even the blonde ones can dye their hair black etc. Also are you really into just the image of a finnish girl that is innocent and pure, because they will lead the way and sometimes men can feel emasculated if they are not used to that. Also finnish girls don’t just let you off the hook when it comes to taking care of children and housing etc. So just really think about it, can you handle a finnish girl even if you want one.

      1. Agree 100% to the point on the blonde Finnish ladies. ^^
        I must apologise if my post gave the impression that all Finnish ladies are blonde–they are not! πŸ˜‰
        A huge huge disclaimer: my post was talking about common stereotypes of “ideal” Finnish ladies portrayed via Finnish media, and it was written in a bimbotic manner.
        So thank you for your comment, Katja! πŸ™‚

        I love most Finnish ladies hehe they’re very strong and no-nonsense. ^^

  5. Terve!
    First of all, congratulations for the post, so good πŸ™‚βœŒοΈ

    Here a guy from Barcelona, 20, who is living in Finland since last January (2016) and until next January (2017).
    I got in love with Finland for lot of things, one of them girls of course, and for this reason I decided to study in Finland next years.
    And I was wondering where it can be more “easy” to find a Finnish girlfriend, North? South?
    And… It’s a fake feeling or they love Spannish people? It’s so easy and normal that girls get interested in you when they see me and they know I’m from Spain.

    Kiitos! (Learning Finnish lenguage)

    1. Hello Jokk!

      Come on–it’s Barcelona! πŸ˜€ if you are at least decent looking, you will be approached by girls everywhere! I guess the stereotypical Spanish guy is wayyyy more expressive than a sterotypical Finn, and therefore more popular with Finnish ladies here.

      Just gotta make yourself available for and visible in social events. I don’t see a problem for you– If you confess to five Finnish girls you like, I’m positive at least one will say yes! πŸ™‚

      Just position yourself where you can find at least 5 girls whom you like to confess to, in sequence!

      All the best! πŸ‘

  6. Hi, what If I come from Australia and want to spend a couple of weeks in Finland: do you think I could succeed in getting a girlfriend just for that period? πŸ˜† I fear she would barely move here
    Oh last but not least it is relieving to know they are meticulous; I would never date a smelly uneducated girl in scruffy clothes πŸ˜•

  7. Hi
    I am from Africa in South Africa & black. I was planing to move to Fin for 3 years. I like to know do they (Fin women)go fo black African?

    1. I think character is key! πŸ˜€ Don’t worry, you’d find a girl you like! πŸ™‚
      Personally, I think race is a non-issue especially in Helsinki.

  8. Hi!
    Thanks so much for the post
    I am bahram from afghanistan
    So i am tring to find a girl friend
    But i can’t find,can you help me plesae
    How i can find??

      1. Hello…I have been using Tinder for many years but no women no ladies reply to me. I thumb up many girls but no body reply so I would like to know how is the process working…Do i need to pay for the Tinder membership then i know the results

  9. good visiting helsinki in jul 2016 want to meet up with finn girls any forums or clubs that can help?can workplace throw up surprises what are the rules.any finn girls viewing this?

  10. Is there anyway for a black American like me to meet some really nice Finnish ladies? A place on your site where I can maybe leave my advert or some sort of profile to find a Finnish lady?

  11. Hi, Thanks for your wonderful post! How are indians viewed by Finnish women? I know we’re sterotyped a lot by the media but I really do hope to get to know someone and form a genuine relationship. Is it possible?

  12. Okay! I’m absolutely intrigued. This sounds interesting. Even if I’m not to take this tooo seriously, the guidelines seem to make sense. So I live in the UK and can’t travel. How would I initiate an online friendship with a view to bringing my friend to the UK (were she to choose such a crazy option!)? Obviously I’m in no mad rush to subject my potential friend to my life story in full but I do have some reasonable talents. Singer/song writer/producer. Radio presenter. That kind of thing. I’m finding as lot of UK girls uninspiring so I want to look to more interesting lands. Broaden my horizons, if you like. Hope this isn’t too wordy for you and thanks for the inspiration.
    Dug, AKA Wolfie.

  13. Hi Everyone,
    I want to permanent settle down in Finland with my family (my wife and daughter). Currently living in India and working in Advertising Agency, my wives also working as a Maths teacher. Any jobs, any employer or any way to get PR of Finland. Please suggest.


  14. I just broke up with my Finnish girlfriend and I miss her so much:( I did something really bad to her and I regret it so much! I hope she’s good now. All our memories come out on my mind everyday and I hope I can get back with her. She is a nicest and beautiful girl I have ever seen. πŸ™

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