Recently I had supper with Dunstan till 2am+ and we were talking about this topic of schemas, alternative realities and why human beings repeat certain patterns in life. One of the most interesting things Dunstan mentioned was the concept of “parallel universes”. In case this sounds too Sci-fiction, an easier way to think about “parallel […]
Before I sleep, I want to quickly write something I realised today, mainly after talking to Dunstan– There is one main reason why we deny ourselves closure– and that is because it is natural as human beings to be overwhelmed by emotions after an undesirable (and may or may not be traumatic) event. Emotions cloud […]
As I wrote in the last post, I recently went through a breakup. The relationship lasted for 9years, and part of the recovery process was wondering exactly when the relationship started to rot. Have you ever wondered when a relationship is over? Can you revive flowers when they start to rot, for example? Upon reflection, […]
Never thought I’ll be writing this at this time of the night. And for that matter, never thought I’ll be writing again so soon. The past 3+ months would have been pure hell if not for the good places Life has put me in. A new workplace, a group of people I could count on […]
As human beings, we all have emotional voids one way or the other. Would you consider this as a basic instinct? If so, then how do we communicate standards?